Hi all you Matzahmates, Matzahlady here again to speak to you about some positive qualities to look for in a new relationship. First, learn to listen to the other person. Let them know that you are really interested. Gaze into each others eyes and make contact with the other person.Listen for empathy ,walking in each others shoes, be able to put yourself in their place Ask yourself am I ready for that? It takes practice. You can do it. It is definately worth the effort. Do you feel equal to this person in mind heart and spirit. Shift gears and compromise a bit so that you can gain a better perspective. If its not there in the begining ,it is a quality that can be developed over time.Please believe me, I have gone thru it. Is this person energetic, does he have vitality and interests that fascinate you ? Does he/she she generate excitement in you and I am not inferring sexual feelings that is left for later. A respectful relationship isnt built around sex (many experts agree)  Ta Ta. Tomorrow we will explore another aspect of relationships. Shalom

Matzahlady